Audrey Walzer is a yoga instructor who understands that those who can contort themselves into a human pretzel aren’t afraid to step into a yoga studio.
It’s the folks who have a hard time bending over to tie their shoes that the owner of Camarillo Yoga invites to come to her studio on Santa Rosa Road.
“We call it user-friendly yoga because it is not a lot of young, Gumby-like people doing pretzely things,” said Walzer, a longtime Camarillo resident and yoga instructor for more than 20 years. “A lot of people come in with back pain or feeling very stiff because they sit at a desk all day.”
Walzer believes that yoga, the ancient art of stretching and maintaining poses to improve balance, strength and flexibility, is beneficial to anyone at any stage in life.
Camarillo Yoga offers a variety of classes, including prenatal, baby, family, therapeutic and laughter, for a wide range of abilities, from beginners to advanced.
As baby boomers age, Walzer said, she has seen a growing number of middle-aged students join her classes. It has helped dispel the longtime misconception that yoga is for younger, more athletic students.
“In your middle years, there’s only two ways you can go: You can move forward with better health or you can move into decrepitude,” Walzer said. “There is a choice.”
Walzer said those in her generation— she’s 54—“don’t want to live the way our parents did. We don’t want to believe that at 75 we’re going to be decrepit.”
Andy Barton, a commercial airline pilot and retired Navy captain, said back pain six years ago made it too painful to fly.
The 53-year-old Camarillo resident said he was introduced to yoga, and it changed his life.
“After about three months, I realized I didn’t have any pain in my back at all,” Barton said. “After six months, I realized I didn’t have any pain anywhere.”
Barton and his wife, Allison, are now substitute yoga teachers at Walzer’s studio.
He said yoga has strengthened his body, helped him lose weight and made it possible for him to spend long hours sitting in the cockpit without back pain.
Walzer said it may take a few classes for first-time students to feel comfortable with yoga, but added that the benefits of stretching and maintaining a proper posture go a long way toward lessening back, shoulder and joint pain. It also reduces stress.
“You have to be willing to be a beginner,” Walzer said. “You have to be able to be willing to feel a little awkward. When we get older, we typically only do the things that we’re good at doing.”
Walzer opened Camarillo Yoga on Sept. 10, 2001—one day before the terrorist attacks of Sept. 11.
Despite the national anxiety in the months after the attacks and the rocky economy, the Canadian native’s business venture has been successful. The studio recently celebrated its 10th anniversary with a benefit event that raised about $7,600 in money and other donations for RAIN Transitional Living Center, a Camarillo-based shelter for homeless families.
The studio in the Santa Rosa Plaza holds 28 weekly classes and has roughly 500 students come through its door each week.
Walzer said her studio’s success over the years is built on the simple idea that anybody can do yoga and that each class should be led by a hands-on teacher who takes the time to tailor the class so it best suits those students.
“ When you come in you have teachers here,” Walzer said. “They’re not just going to lead you around and let you watch them while you try to figure it out. We’re going to teach you how to do it.”
Walzer, who earned her degree in kinesiology from Seneca College in Toronto, moved to Camarillo in 1995 from Marina del Rey, where she owned a yoga studio for four years. She’d previously worked as a gymnastics coach and helped train the 1976 Canadian Olympics team.
Although being a small business owner can be trying at times, Walzer said it gives her the freedom to teach the classes the way she feels is best.
“It’s a way to do what you love to do, the way you want to do it,” she said.
Walzer lives in Camarillo with her 15-year-old son, Noah.
What does Walzer love most about what she does?
“I enjoy watching people learn about their bodies, understand their bodies and how to live more comfortably and freely,” she said
Camarillo Yoga is at 5800 Santa Rosa Road, Ste. 127.
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The Science of Mindfulness Helps Teachers and Students Stress –Less!
Imagine yourself, midway through a well-planned lesson. A student makes loud disruptive noises that distract the others and threaten your instruction. Your body tenses and you feel a rush of emotion. Without thinking you respond angrily to the student, causing stress in the other children and draining your enthusiasm for the rest of the day. Sound familiar?
Teaching has never been an easy job but in the last decade it has become more challenging than ever. Students bring tough and traumatized home lives, as well as untreated physical and mental health issues to classrooms. These issues are not easily fixable and yet teachers are somehow expected to ignore them, and move ahead with the day’s lesson. Teachers feel pressured to meet every student’s needs, regardless of the impossibility of doing so. Statistically, one in five teachers leave the profession in the first two years, and four in five have left after five years.
Losing so many talented individuals to stress and feelings of inadequacy begs our urgent attention. Fortunately, part of the solution is just that- attention. Research studies now point to the fact that teachers who pay more attention to self care are more open and connected to their students and more satisfied with their work. In turn, their students are calmer, more focused and attentive and the class accomplishes more. (Association for Mindfulness in Education website December 2013, www.mindfuleducation.org)
Studies show that paying attention on a daily basis to mindful body movement like yoga or walking, along with developing concentration and self-awareness (mindfulness,) decreases stress, depression, anxiety, and hostility, and enhances executive function, compassion and empathy. (Saltzman, 2011)
Research at the University of Wisconsin on mindfulness courses designed specifically for teachers have linked the practice to an increase in teacher effectiveness as well as a myriad of personal emotional and physiological benefits.
Mindfulness for Students
A simple definition of mindfulness is paying attention on purpose in the present moment without judgment. (Jon Kabat-Zinn, 1994) Several studies have demonstrated significant changes in children who receive instruction in mindfulness techniques and their ability to learn.
In a 2005 randomized controlled trial conducted by Maria Napoli, Ph.D., first, second, and third graders who participated in a program of mindfulness and relaxation showed significant increases in attention and social skills and decreases in test anxiety and ADHD behaviors.
In a 2010 study of second and third graders who did Mindfulness Awareness practices for 30 minutes twice a week for 8 weeks, Lisa Flook, Ph.D. and her UCLA colleagues documented that children who began the study with poor executive function had gains in behavioral regulation, meta‐cognition, and overall global executive control.
In research on teaching mindfulness to adolescents conducted in 2009 by Gina Biegel, MA, MFT, the teens reported reduced symptoms of anxiety, depression and somatic (physical) distress, and increased self‐esteem and sleep quality. Independent clinicians documented a higher percentage of diagnostic improvement and significant increases in functioning scores. In layperson’s terms, this means that adolescents who were initially diagnosed with clinical depression and anxiety were no longer depressed or anxious.
Teachers Survive and Thrive!
Being more present, clear, and calm in the present moment and less subject to the emotional push-pull of what has happened in the past or what might happen in the future is important for everyone, but for the teachers in today’s classrooms it is imperative. Additionally, by practicing mindfulness techniques that cultivate kindness toward others, teachers can deepen their connections with students and thereby increase learning.
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Rediscover the Joy of Teaching!
Teaching and modeling mindful awareness can help to counteract student anxiety and aid in attention and connection to the moment at hand. There will always be stressful situations in a classroom and in our home lives. Mindfulness gives us the presence of mind and clarity to change our reaction to them and in the process, help our students to be more mindful of their actions and reactions as well.
Put on Your Own Oxygen Mask First!
Developing a personal practice of physical and emotional self-care offers significant benefits to both teachers and students. However, teaching mindfulness is like teaching anything else: to teach with excellence, you must know and be passionate about the subject. Mindfulness is an experiential discipline, so in order to offer it with integrity, the teaching must come out of a regular personal practice. Find out more about Mindfulness:
Darci Knight is a Camarillo elementary educator. She teaches Mindful Awareness through movement, breath, and meditation at the Camarillo Yoga Center.
Mindfulness is state of active, open awareness created by focusing one’s attention on the present moment, while acknowledging and accepting one’s feelings, thoughts, and bodily sensations.
Mindfulness is for everyone, from all walks of life, young or old. Mindfulness is not a religion- anyone, with any belief system, can benefit. Mindfulness research in the United States and across the globe has scientifically correlated mindfulness to stress reduction.
In recent years, psychotherapists have turned to mindfulness meditation as an important element in the treatment of a number of problems, including:
“Laughter Yoga” has been scientifically proven to reduce stress and increase “happiness chemicals” in your brain, and was recently featured in Time Magazine. Start your weekend with a laugh that’s good for you! This class is free and offered for community well-being by Roni, a certified “Laughter Yoga” instructor!Learn more about our Laughter Yoga classes
Elementary School Teachers
Middle & High School Teachers
Stressed? Or serene? Learn how mindful attentiveness through movement, focusing and breathing practices can help you and your students stress less and work together more effectively.
Darci Knight, yoga teacher, classroom teacher and school administrator leads stress releasing workshops specifically geared to elementary school teachers, and to middle and high school teachers.
Click here to read Darci’s “Mindful Teacher” article from Camarillo Life Magazine- Please put her picture in the article, also please take out the date, also please adjust the bottom boxes (Mindfulness Improves well being etc) as I have mentioned below.
Click here to read “A Mindful Education Starts Young” about Mindfulness in Kindergarten- LA Times.
Click here to read about Mindfulness in a high school classroom- from the Huffington Post
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“Tai Chi can be translated as the ultimate or highest of the martial arts . . . the objectives of Tai Chi include harmony of the mind, promotion of health, and the attainment of rejuvenation and longevity” (Tsung Hwa Jou).
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By Maki Fujisaki Guelcher, Certified Elements of Tai Chi Instructor
Tai Chi, originally developed as a martial art to discipline the bodies, minds and spirits of monks, has been practiced in China for centuries. During the latter part of the 20th century, Tai Chi began to spread to the western world, and evolved from a martial art to a body/mind wellness practice which everyone, young and old, can benefit from.
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Mazen Tai Chi combines elements of the ancient practices of Tai Chi and Qigong, with slow, graceful movements involving weight shifting in many directions, increasing balance, focus, strength, and joint mobility.
Mindful, slow breathing helps to reduce stress and gain stability in body and mind. This gentle, ongoing class is suitable for all ages and levels of fitness, no previous experience or pre-registration required.
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Tai Chi increases interoception and proprioception for better balance
Tai Chi is a form of moving meditation. The movements are slow and graceful, with a focus on deep breathing, which increases inner- awareness or interoception- the ability to feel the body from the inside. Focused breathing while moving slowly and mindfully also develops proprioception- the ability to perceive where our body parts are in space. Both of these qualities are necessary for maintenance of healthy posture, and balance, and so tai chi is particularly useful for our middle years and beyond, when these body functions start to change.
Tai Chi builds strength, control, and increases reflex reaction time
Slow sustained standing movements build muscle and bone in legs and hips. Additionally, Tai Chi movements focus on the lower abdomen as center, and require that we practice connecting the lower body to the ground. Movements require shifting weight, and developing connection between the legs and the stabilizing core muscles. Controlling your body is essential in our everyday lives; by controlling the lower body with strong muscles, you gain better control and balance of the upper body.
Tai Chi helps us to be present to the now
Tai Chi is known as a Mindfulness practice, meaning that instead of living in our thoughts, which are often planning for the future, or reliving the past, we are trained to pay greater attention to our bodies and minds on a moment by moment basis. This attention training helps to reduce stress, increase our physical reaction time, and increase emotional stability.
Tai Chi can reduce the likelihood of sudden incidents such as falling.
Dr. Fong and Dr.Ng show in their study in the Archives of Physical Medicine and Rehabilitation that “Long-term Tai Chi practitioners have been shown to have a significantly faster reflex reaction time” (2006). Considering the benefits listed above- greater overall body awareness, core and lower body strength, increased balance and control, and mindful awareness, tai chi is the perfect practice to help prevent sudden incidents like falling.
Tai Chi can help improve high blood pressure and cholesterol
In the Medical Science Monitor, Dr. Ko, Dr.Tsang and Dr. Chan explain: “Tai Chi practice leads to significantly reduced lipid profiles, total and low-density lipoprotein cholesterol levels” (2006). The deep breathing and muscular contraction which is intrinsic to Tai Chi practice leads to increased blood circulation and oxygen flow in the body, improving cardiovascular and respiratory health. For this reason, Tai Chi is recommended for those who have high blood pressure and high cholesterol as a way to improve their health.
Tai Chi helps reduce stress and anxiety
Slow, deep breathing, focusing on the abdominal region during Tai Chi practice helps to reduce a great amount of stress, relaxing the body and releasing emotional tension. It also leads to improved quality of sleep, and more positive mood overall. Recent studies have shown that Tai Chi practice works as an intervention in educational programs or cognitive-behavioral approaches to help people cope with stress. It is now seen as a strategy to improve and reduce emotional distress in such conditions as anxiety, depression, and phobias (2009).
Tai Chi cultivates energy awareness (Chi)for Mind/Body wellness.
The word “chi” means energy. Tai Chi cultivates the life energy inherent in our breath, and gathers chi into our bodies from the energy of nature all around us, to heal and center us, helping us feel at ease and at peace. Dr. Posadzki and Dr.Jacques mention in “Tai Chi and Meditation” that “Tai Chi as a mind-body technique serves to integrate physiological improvements with psychological ones, including improved confidence, quality of life and motivation” (2009).
My experience as a Tai Chi practitioner and teacher is that this practice provides unending opportunity for personal growth. As our bodies become familiar with the movements and breathing, we are able to sink deeper, and experience fully the chi within us, to feel more connected to ourselves, to one another and to the earth that sustains us.
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By Audrey Walzer, CYC Yoga Teacher; Owner & Director
“Yoga? Oh no, I’m not flexible.” If I’d only heard it once… but a thousand times later I am frustrated that people’s perception of yoga is still based on media images of yoga practice as a bunch of pretzel-like poses done by super bendy women in provocative outfits. This imagery sells products from mattresses to designer water, and yet it keeps the very people who would benefit most from yoga, away from it.
As a yoga and movement teacher for over thirty years, please, please believe me when I say: You don’t have to be flexible to do yoga! In fact, if your muscles are tight due to lots of athletics, sitting at a computer all day, driving, past or current injuries, or simply being a couch potato… yoga can keep you from an almost inevitable visit to the orthopedist’s office one day!
Our bodies were designed to move. As children, we naturally explore the full range of movement nature has given us. Today, even children move less, and teenagers are experiencing back pain in record numbers. As we age, due to lifestyle, time and family constraints, our movements become habituated, lacking variation, and our bodies become imbalanced… often tight in hamstrings, hips and lower back, chest muscles and shoulders. These imbalances, if left unattended, inevitably lead to pain- in the back, in the knees, in the neck, and this can cause us to move less, creating a vicious cycle. Make no mistake, everyone needs to stretch! Just look at an animal waking from sleep- it’s a natural instinct we have forgotten. But once you begin, it feels so good! The secret is this: you need to move your body in a way that serves you, and not try to imitate a bendy-Barbie teacher.
At Camarillo Yoga Center, we are celebrating our 13th year teaching “regular people” of all ages, sizes, shapes and levels of fitness, to rebalance their bodies. With safe yoga practices that bear no resemblance to pretzels, and attention to individual differences, we ease the muscles of the back, hips and legs to alleviate lower back pain, and relieve shoulder and neck tension. We gently stretch tight muscles and strengthen those that are weak and ignored, most often the core muscles that support the lower back. Our goal at Camarillo Yoga is not to tie you into a knot, but instead to untie the knots that you know are there, and the ones you may not even realize are causing you pain or discomfort.
“I tried to stretch; it hurts!” I believe it. A machine that has rusted, no matter how old or new, creaks and groans, but a little oil helps lubricate the parts so they move smoothly. In yoga, as opposed to old-fashioned “reach and bounce” stretching, we use a very special oil can to help your body glide more freely: The Breath. Western medical science confirms that yoga breathing stimulates the vagus nerve to create a “relaxation response” so the “fight or flight” tensing mechanism is disengaged, and the whole body is able to move in a more relaxed, integrated way. Yoga breathing helps us focus, concentrate and let go of the brain chatter that occupies us 90% of the time, so we feel our bodies in ways that keep us safe, and ultimately result in greater range of motion, balance and freedom.
“I don’t have time to go to a yoga class!” Time is the key. How many minutes do you spend at a computer, tightening your neck and shoulders? Our bodies are efficient accountants, and they want to please us. If we spend most of our time holding our bones in positions that shorten our muscles, our accountants will tell the muscle crew to just firm up and hold the bones there permanently. When we finally take that much needed vacation, and tear out our shoulder taking a suitcase from the overhead bin, our accountant is confused. This overhead bone position wasn’t in the plan- the muscles have formed themselves for typing. Ouch! We need to balance the ledger, it’s as simple as that, and denial is a huge factor in the ultimate deterioration of our physical health. So many people come to me for help once back pain is so great they are trying to avoid surgery, or when all the surgeries haven’t helped them feel better… if only they had put in the minutes to rebalance their bodies before pain became the motivator.
My heartfelt suggestion? Put in the minutes toward your own health and freedom now. Open your mind and find out how yoga can significantly change your body balance sheet!
A ‘Pilot’ Program: How Yoga Saved this Captain’s Career and Why Middle-Age, Sore and Stiff men Should Try It.
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By Andy Barton, CYC Yoga Teacher and Commercial Airline Pilot
… Ok, now that I have your attention, let me tell you how and why I got into yoga and spell out some of the benefits of adding yoga to your daily routine. My name is Andy Barton and I am a pilot for a major airline. I spent Independence Day, 2005 in the emergency room in agony. In a rush to leave the cramped cockpit of the 737 I had just landed, I swung my heavy navigation bag around, unsafely twisting and straining my back- a stupid but classic mistake for pilots, and our number one “on the job injury.” Back home, missing a month of work while on medication and rest, I was not able to move without pain and definitely nervous that I might never fly again. To top it off, my wife Allison and I had planned our 25th wedding anniversary for over a year—a week at a hiking resort in Canada that cost a fortune, and I was determined not to miss this trip. So, armed with pain medication, off to Canada we went.
After a long painful flight to Spokane, and a four-hour car ride north to the Canadian Rockies, my back was killing me when we arrived and received our schedule. I laughed when I saw that 6 am yoga was the first activity. I whined that no way was I going to be able to do yoga- I couldn’t even bend over to put on my underwear. My wife (an RN) knows me so well that she pushed the right button: “after all, we did pay for it.” So off to yoga I sulked, and who walks into the class but the aforementioned BEAUTIFUL YOGA TEACHER. Oh man, now I really was going to look like a wimp, so I started on the excuses again. Bad idea. Nurse and yoga teacher ganged up on me, and the teacher instructed me on how to modify the practice- to stop if I felt a sharp pain but continue if I felt a stretching sensation. Throughout the class she checked on me and amazingly enough I not only made it through the class but felt a little better.
All stretched out, we loaded up the jeeps and headed for the glaciers. Up and down the mountain I went with a manageable amount of discomfort. No drugs required. That night, I had a massage, and at the end of that day I felt 50% better than I had in the morning before yoga. After four days of yoga and massages, I was feeling so good that I planned to go back to work when we got home. I was “cured”!
My wife, as she often does, knew better. Back at home, she suggested that we continue yoga. I predictably started in on the “I’m good now, I don’t need yoga” routine, and in typical nurse fashion she ignored me and bought yoga mats and a DVD. Here is the problem with a Yoga DVD: If you don’t already know how to do yoga, then a DVD is not a great place to start because the dude on the screen can’t see you and tell you that you’re doing it wrong and that you may either hurt yourself or not get the intended benefit. After two days, I had enough of that. Undeterred, my lovely wife found the Camarillo Yoga Center and spoke to Audrey, the owner. She suggested an entry-level yoga class for beginners. My excuses fell on deaf ears, and I found myself in a room full of people on mats- to my surprise, many of them were guys. The class wasn’t full of pretzel poses, and Audrey helped us both feel comfortable and gave me clear instructions on what I should do to help my back, the big one being to stretch my ridiculously tight hamstrings. Sounded like a good idea, but to my dismay Allison signed us both up for six months of classes right in front of my eyes. Did I mention that she knows me so well that once we paid for the classes she knew I was d…n well going to get my money’s worth? After three months I realized the pain in my back was completely gone. After six months, I did not have any pain anywhere in my body. Ok, so maybe there is something to this yoga stuff.
Now, both Allison and I have been practicing yoga for over eight years, and teaching yoga at Camarillo Yoga Center for six. We are in our mid-50’s and amazed at how we compare with same-age friends in terms of stamina, lack of aches and pains, and other signs of aging. I do yoga on the airplane between flights, and have even shown my flight crews how to stretch. I’m into woodworking, and can spend longer hours on my projects, because I stretch while I work.
Allison and I feel better that at any other time in our lives. My body feels balanced, strong and flexible and my wife has never looked better. Yoga is an activity that couples can do together because you learn to do what your body is calling for. Your spouse and everyone else in the class are all in different places and that’s ok. Success in yoga is defined by showing up to class on your mat and dealing with where you are today.
It took me 45 plus years to get my hamstrings so tight and short that I was getting back pain. It took patience and commitment to free my body of pain. Yoga is not about being super flexible, but about breathing and moving your body to maximize good health and longevity. A consistent yoga practice is not a stand-alone exercise regime but designed to enhance all the other activities in your life, so that you can hike, bike, work in your backyard, or whatever is important to you, pain free, for as long as you can.
Dudes, get over it. Your wife is right. Take it from me, you need to stretch. Go to yoga.
(The Neuroscience Behind Why We Fail, and What to do About it!)
It’s that time of year again, where we announce our grand plans to the world, or keep a little piece of paper hidden under our pillow, then hope and pray that we can live up to our… New Year’s Resolutions!
The results are no surprise. A study published in the Journal of Clinical Psychology found that six months into the year, fewer than half — 46 percent — of resolvers were still keeping their pledge. In a 2007 study of 3,000 British people, 88% were unable to keep their resolutions.
Should we just end this silly ritual once and for all? Or, let neuroscience help us find a different approach?
Why New Year’s Resolutions are a Great Idea!
Rather than living on autopilot, evaluating how we can grow as human beings helps us live a healthier, more engaged life.
Everyone loves a fresh start, and the New Year is as good a time as any to reflect on what has been serving us well in our lives, and where we can take a positive action to live with even greater fulfillment and meaning.
A resolution gives structure to our intention, and writing it down empowers us further.
Studies show that commitments made actively have more staying power than those made passively.
Our sense of accomplishment builds on itself.
Research shows that as we develop the mental discipline to make a change, or take on something new, the brain’s pre-frontal cortex becomes stronger, enabling us to have greater willpower and focus for the next task.
As we make changes in our lives, we are a model for others, particularly our children.
When our kids see us walk the talk, it empowers them to make positive choices and be patient and persistent in their goals.
Where We Go Wrong with New Year’s Resolutions… and What to Do About it!
Asking too much of ourselves.
A study at Stanford University showed that a group of students asked to remember a seven digit number were twice as likely to choose a piece of chocolate cake over a bowl of fruit as a snack, as compared to another group who were only tasked with remembering a two digit number. It turns out that the more cognitive load our pre-frontal cortex carries, the less self-regulation we have.
Solution: Pick only one resolution.
Our busy lives already load our pre-frontal cortex work. keeping us focused, handling short term memory and solving abstract problems, so adding losing weight, reducing spending and limiting Facebook time can only cause our “willpower muscles” to fatigue and fail! For this New Year, choose only one intention. Who says resolutions come only once a year? You can choose another in a few months, and build on your success!
Making our resolutions too vague or broad.
Resolutions should not be confused with goals, which are broad targets that may include many things outside your immediate control. Your resolution may contribute to an overall life goal, but would be better initiated as a behavioral change or action you can take on a daily basis.
Solution: Be specific.
While losing weight is an admirable goal, setting an achievable exercise plan helps your brain by creating a structure for action. Even with a plan, keep your expectations realistic, and remember your intention. If your resolution is to walk three times per week, don’t stop if you don’t lose weight the first two weeks. Remember, that was not your resolution! If your resolution is to quit smoking, visit the smoking cessation clinic before the New Year, so you can begin the plan on January 1!
Picking a sub-optimal resolution.
There are many small ways we can make change in our lives, and sticking to any one of them, say, eating less at every meal, is very likely to bring about change. However, research shows that when choosing to change a habit, we would do well to look for a “keystone” habit, one which has the potential for starting a chain reaction in our lives.
Solution: Consider developing what might be a “keystone” habit.
In his book “The Power of Habit,” Charles Duhigg comments on University of Rhode Island research: “Typically, people who exercise start eating better and becoming more productive at work. They smoke less and show more patience with colleagues and family. They use their credit cards less frequently and say they feel less stressed…For many people, exercise is a keystone habit that triggers widespread change.” Neuroscience has shown us that Mindfulness Meditation is another profound keystone habit. In subjects who meditate regularly, actual growth in the medial pre-frontal cortex (MPFC) has been documented, with improvement in self-regulation, emotional and and immune system health as just a few of the overall results.
Avoiding the Owl Rather than Focusing on the Cheese.
While asking for support and encouragement from a close friend or family member can help keep you motivated, announcing your grand Resolution to your entire Facebook network might leave you like the mouse, looking over her shoulder for the owl and wondering when she will be caught. A study at the University of Maryland tested this phenomena. Two groups of students were asked to do a simple pencil maze; one group was to avoid the owl, the other to get to the cheese at the end of the maze. After finishing the puzzle, the owl avoiders did 50% worse on the next creative task than the cheese seekers. Avoidance pathways in the brain shut down creative thinking and risk taking, while approach pathways reduced stress and allowed those focused on their goal to be successful.
Solution: Set up rewards for small successes before you begin, and don’t worry about what others are thinking.
This is your life, and you are doing this for you. Your intention is to create long-term change, but human beings do better with regular hits of “feel good” chemicals like serotonin, oxytocin and dopamine. Treat yourself to a good night’s sleep, maybe in a fancy hotel room with a bubble bath, a funny movie, a walk in the woods, a day with a good friend. These will serve your intention far better than a “sneak” reward, like just one cigarette, or a bag full of Doritos.
Setting Up an “All or Nothing” Scenario.
Don’t kid yourself and think you will never eat another Dorito. Even with heavy duty addictions like cigarettes, a relapse does not mean ultimate failure. In fact, one study showed that 71% of people who successfully quit smoking said their first slip actually strengthened their efforts to quit.
Solution: Acknowledge fallibility and plan for it.
Astronaut Chris Hadfield describes the training strategy for space station crew members as “What is the Next Thing that Could Kill Me?” Astronauts are drilled to expect fallibility and to know what to do if a fail happens, and thus are able to solve inevitable problems without collapsing into panic. Get your strategies in line: When you miss one of your weekly walks, you have a friend lined up to walk with you. A bag of Doritos means a chance to head to Whole Foods for a healthy, delicious alternative. An overspend on a credit card is a reminder to telephone a financial counselor, today. If you were learning to play the piano, would you expect never to play a wrong note? As we move through this new endeavor, and acknowledge ourselves as fallible human beings, perhaps even with a smile, we down regulate the amygdala, or hair trigger in our brains that sends us into the fight or flight mode, which says, “I’ve blown it now, it’s all over.” We are able to move out of the past, and into the present moment, where we can take a positive action towards our plan.
Final Thought for this Year
The Latin origin of the word resolution is: “to loosen or release, dissolve.” Release your judgments and bathe yourself in kindness as you contemplate your New Year’s Resolutions. Talk to yourself like your grandmother who loves you no matter what, but gives good advice, too. Loosen up about what’s wrong with you, and focus on what’s right. Let this be your guide to an inspired you in 2014!
From my article in Camarillo Life Magazine for January, 2014.]]>
This holiday season, remember: Your good health is the best gift of all!
“Why are you saying, “Do you mind moving your leg?” I don’t mind. I want to do this. I love to do this.” These words are gifts from my good friend and yoga student George Benson, who practiced yoga with me regularly until a week before he passed away in August, at the age of 96.
George’s determination to keep up his strength and live life to the fullest, despite limitations due to an internal issue last year, inspired all of us at Camarillo Yoga Center. How could anyone think of complaining about a little physical effort to stay in good shape, while George made it clear he was not to be babied at 96, and that his lifelong exercise and nutritional discipline had provided him excellent health well into the years when many are in sad decline? His puzzlement at the idea that someone would mind doing whatever it takes to be in good health was an insightful commentary on the changes in our physical culture during the decades of George’s life.
As a young man in the navy, George began working out with weights, and continued an active life, swimming, hiking and running, until he developed a back issue at 86, and found yoga at Camarillo Yoga Center. Many years of strengthening, and working at jobs involving physical labor had caused tight muscles; George discovered that with a dedicated stretching program, his back pain was relieved entirely, and he became a fixture in our classes. At an age where many would give in and give up, George, as he always said, “played the cards he was dealt,” and made the effort to live with gusto into his nineties. At his memorial service, George’s daughter told us juicing was not a new fad in their lives- her dad bought massive bags of carrots for juicing in the 1950’s! A vegetarian for 65 years, George eschewed sugar and junk food, but loved to eat and delighted in healthy, tasty recipes, many with vegetables from his own garden, prepared by his beloved wife, Joyce. George was always quick with a joke, and his love of life was infectious.
In contrast to George’s active, healthy life, statistics show that today, only 30% of adult Americans take part in exercise of any kind! Not surprisingly, 35.7% of adults and 30% of children are obese, and these numbers are growing rapidly. Having been a teacher of yoga and movement for adults and children for over forty years, my experience is that fewer people tell me they enjoy moving their bodies, and working up a sweat. I regularly hear that perspiring or being warm “makes me uncomfortable” and “I really should exercise, but I just don’t like the feeling.” Additionally, we think of fatty, fried or sugar laden foods as treats, and “make ourselves” eat fruits and vegetables.
When did it become a burden to move our bodies the way nature intended, and to eat foods nature provides without draining them of all nutritional content? When did we lose sight of the gift of good health?
One clue is to look at the major labor-saving technological changes in the span of George’s lifetime:
My belief is that the “progress” which has allowed us to be more “comfortable” and have more leisure time, has weakened our bodies and our minds, and taken away the gift of effort, of sweat, of overcoming obstacles through our own application and persistence over time. We look for easy and fast at every turn, and fall prey to gimmicks that tell us on every level that we can look good and feel good without having to do anything at all.
The holidays are nearly here. While we shop online for more stuff, “treat ourselves” with holiday sweets and overeating, and create back pain driving far and wide, let’s remember George, and what is really important-
The best gift you can give yourself, your family, and the world, is a healthy you. Let’s change our minds about what we “mind” and what we enjoy. Let’s get strong and proud of it. Start small. Enjoy a walk with a loved one. Ask for a bicycle for Christmas. Take pride in the “effort” it takes to wash some blueberries for breakfast, or create a meal that’s healthy and tastes good. George taught me that a life well-lived requires effort, and that the effort itself can be joyful!
Joy to all this holiday season!
First published in Camarillo Life Magazine, December issue, 2013]]>
Scientific research shows that gratitude has profound effects on our physical and emotional health, our social life, and even the survival of our marriages!
Thanksgiving is our favorite holiday at Camarillo Yoga Center. It’s no coincidence that our annual Thanksgiving morning class is so popular. Spending time in gratitude for our physical bodies, the breath that gives us life, and the good fortune to practice yoga with people we feel connected to, sends us into a holiday that can be stressful for some, feeling invigorated, happy, and… healthy!
The good news: it’s more than a feeling! According to Drs. Blaire and Rita Justice of the University of Texas Health Science Center, “a growing body of research shows that gratitude is truly amazing in its physical and psychosocial benefits.” Professor Robert Emmons, PhD, a scientist at University of California Davis, has intensively researched the effects of gratitude over eight years, publishing landmark studies, and a bestselling book, “Thanks! How the New Science of Gratitude Can Make You Happier.”
Feel grateful, be healthier.
In one of Emmons’ control groups, participants were asked to describe five things they were grateful for in a gratitude journal once a week. These subjects exercised more regularly, reported fewer physical symptoms, and felt more optimistic about the coming week and their lives as a whole than did those in control groups who recorded hassles or neutral life events over the same time frame.
Give thanks, get more done, feel more connected.
Those in the gratitude group were more likely to have made progress toward important personal goals (academic, interpersonal and health-based) over a two month period. In Emmons’ further studies, people who practiced gratitude daily, showed higher positive states of alertness, enthusiasm, attentiveness and energy, in addition to greater “pro-sociality”, or goodwill and generosity towards others than did those who focused on gratitude weekly.
Count blessings, not sheep.
A University of Manchester, England study showed that subjects (many of whom reported sleep disorders) who took a few minutes before bed to write down things they were grateful for fell asleep faster, and improved overall quality of sleep.
Gratitude can strengthen your relationship.
Dr. John Gottman, the University of Washington’s famous “marriage doctor,” states that unless a couple is able to maintain a high range of positive to negative encounters (5:1 or greater), it is likely the marriage will end. Among the positives, he describes “expressions of appreciation and gratitude” as paramount, in addition to smiles, compliments and laughter.
Gratitude is not indebtedness, nor does it have to be spiritual.
In another study, (Emmons & Gray 2000) people who felt indebted to others report higher levels of anger and lower levels of appreciation, happiness and love compared to those who felt grateful. Gratitude is a chosen attitude, unrelated to guilt or obligation, which helps us to remember that we are all recipients of unearned benefits and good fortune, even in small things, and stop feeling entitled, or taking the good things in our lives for granted. If you are a religious person, praying is a wonderful way to give thanks. But gratitude does not have to be directed towards a deity, or anything specific. It might be as simple as feeling lucky that you found a parking spot easily, or smiling when the sun peeks out from behind a cloud.
The research is in: With an “attitude of gratitude” things don’t just look better, they actually get better!
“Ten Finger Gratitude Exercise”
There are so many positive things and moments we overlook in our lives. Once a day, count on your fingers ten things, people, situations, or moments you feel grateful for, or lucky to have, to know, or to be. When you open your mind to the small gifts all around you, you might be surprised at how difficult it is to run out of things to be grateful for!
Happy Thanks- giving!
Reprinted from my Camarillo Life Magazine Article, November 2013]]>